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Audrey's avatar

This is exactly why Gerwig’s Little Women is my favorite movie. You so perfectly encapsulate Jo as a character. If I could give this 100 likes I would! 🙌🙌🙌

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Mashka's avatar

Thank you for taking the time to read!

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Woman of Salt's avatar

This is a perfect understanding of that trembling, vulnerable line. I think that this portrayal of Jo is honestly why this version of little women feels like it has become my generation’s version - and to a greater extent, for a lot of women, the defining version (sorry I know that’s blasphemy against Winona Ryder but it is still true) - because the film SEES women so clearly. All of them. Not just the written on the page parts. The messy, the selfish, the vulnerable, the stubborn, the unsure, the wild, the loving, the domestic, the romantic, the yearning. It sees us FULLY.

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carla's avatar

The way you frame her loneliness not as weakness but as part of her complexity is what makes her character feel vulnerable and real. We rarely talk about how following your own path can feel so isolating, even when deep inside you know it's the right choice.

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Inez Wakungwi's avatar

First, I haven't watched it, and now I am going to.

Second, after a devastating conversation with my mother where she reduced the value of her only daughter (me) to a wife and womb, I have never felt more seen, considered, and vocalized as I have reading this piece. Existing in the strife of the 'in between'

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Mashka's avatar

I am so glad I could make you feel seen for the woman you are and you are worth so much more than you'll ever even know!

Thank you so much for reading!

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poomaisdiaryy's avatar

Wow, you managed to put into words what I could not accurately do so myself when it comes to explaining WHY Greta Gerwig's Little Women adaption is simply the best one. You've got yourself a new subscriber :)

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tori's avatar

this is such a good piece!

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Mashka's avatar

thank you so so much!

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Im Writer-nim's avatar

Thank you so much. So well articulated and what I've been feeling so intensely lately. I never watched this movie but I suddenly feel called to... precisely because I kept seeing Jo as this strong-willed, impassioned woman and while I hold her beliefs I've been feeling weak myself lately, so seeing this nuance changes my perspective and I feel I can relate to her better now, even in my state of weakness. Thank you! 🧡

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Ankita Sinha's avatar

This piece made me cry. The monologue has resonated so much with me and this piece of yours defines even more clearly why that is the case.

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Tell Me's avatar

"But self love does not negate loneliness" is going to stick with me for a while. The whole piece is amazing and food for thought, incredible

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Wambúi's avatar

I took this essay as a recommendation and so I know watched the movie yesterday before reading, and my goodness! How well you've painted Jo! 'self love doesn't negate loneliness ' as a woman who by decisions stray away from societal expectations, I find myself lonely most of the time and your analysis of Jo is very comforting

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Connor's avatar

Beautiful essay! I love this film, and this scene always breaks my heart. Saoirse is amazing.

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sophie's avatar

YES!! I love how you put this, you perfectly summed up why Greta Gerwigs version is my favourite. Loneliness is not a weakness it is our humanity. We are allowed to want both autonomy and love. We don’t have to be put into boxes

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Ella OBrien's avatar

“Self-love does not negate loneliness” that’s a great line!

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Wonder wannabe's avatar

This is lovely!

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